“No it’s not!”

Last weekend I attended the Bronner Bros. Hair Convention in Atlanta. One of the booths at the show caught my eye, and I stopped to look at their products.

One of the girls approached me and started to explain that their products were designed for maintenance of something called “lace wigs” that women wear.

I soon realized that not only did she have no idea that I was wearing one, but she thought I didn’t even know what they were!

She was a nice girl and was doing a great job of explaining their product to me, the guy who had probably never even heard of lace wigs, hehe.

I couldn’t keep a straight face so I told her I was indeed wearing a full lace wig. At first she didn’t believe me and asked me to turn around so she could see the back. She then asked if she could take my picture, and asked if I could stop back by a little later to show her boss, and I happily obliged.

They were very nice people. I got to meet the chemist and the marketing director. They spent several minutes staring at my hair in amazement before I had to move on and finish my rounds.

It’s a great feeling when you can even fool the pro’s!

Contact Me!

The past several months things have been pretty busy for me with the launch of the RemySoft product line, the new blog, the final editing of my Full Cap eBook, and plans to continue with the production of my Full Cap DVD. So far I have been able to keep up with answering all of my emails, and as long as I have the time I will continue to help anyone who has questions regarding Full Caps or hair replacement in general.

For the benefit  of all of my readers, I have introduced a new category entitled “Reader Mailbag” where I will post questions that are sent to me via email, along with my answers in a blog post, if I feel that it might be of benefit to other readers. Keep in mind that I will not include any of your personal information in the post, but if you wish to not have your question answered on the blog itself, please let me know when you contact me.

One more thing-

With all of the transitions and transformations recently, I have ended up with several different email addresses. I still receive email at all of them, but I am trying to consolidate, so if you need to contact me please use one of the email addy’s below.

For questions regarding the RemySoft line of products, please contact:

sales@RemySoftHair.com

For all other inquiries you can reach me at:

JRob@HairJive.com

Look forward to hearing from you!

Reader Mailbag

In an effort to be able to help as many people as possible, I have decided to  post some of the emails that I get (anonymously, of course) so all of my readers are able to learn from the interaction. Here’s the first of what I am sure will be many!

Hi Jon,

I know you recommend a french lace base for newbies, but what if someone works out and sweats a lot? Would the french base still be a good choice for that, or would another base type be more appropriate? I’m not sure whether it’s best to have more ventilation with the lace bases or more sturdy security with the skin/poly bases, or even a combination. I’ve been avoiding swimming for a long time, so I’d like to know what the most secure base is for swimmers too.

Definitely, 100% without question, French Lace for your first unit. See my blog post from yesterday about my first time wakeboarding. Blue liner tape provided the bulk of the strength of the attachment, and Ultrahold glue gave a great finish in the front. It held solid as a rock, and I got dunked three or four times….fully submerged.

I can’t stress enough the importance of an all French Lace unit for your first. Not only can you get a rock solid attachment, but it is comfortable, breathable, and very easy to customize.

Also, some sites have a measurement method of building a template for full caps. Have you heard anything about how accurate this method is?

My first two full caps were ordered with measurements only. Subsequent orders have all been with templates.

The biggest issue with ordering from measurements is the fact that the temple points and hairline shape are left to the  ventilator’s discretion, and usually end up looking unrealistic. This is less of an issue if you are planning a longer hairstyle, but I always recommend a template. If you order an all lace base as I suggest, you can still easily cut these areas to shape and pluck individual hairs to acheive a good looking hairline, but the closer the factory gets the better.

What is the length of the hair and density for this image you posted? It looks really good without any cut or styling added to it.

I believe this is about 6″ hair length, light or body wave, and the density would be based upon the company that you order from. This would be a little above average density on the top (and even higher in the back) for a 30-40 something male. Actually, this unit was just cut-in and the density is pretty heavy all the way around. Maybe suitable for a guy in his 20′s, but too thick for me!

Comments and Questions are Welcome!

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Wakeboarding For The First Time

A good friend of mine lives on a lake spends a lot of time wakeboarding during the summer.

I’ve been out on his boat a few times, but since I am still trying to work the kinks out of the ventilation in the nape area of my full caps, I have avoided getting in the water.

Today I threw caution to the wind, strapped on a wakeboard, and had a great time!

My first run lasted about 5 seconds, but at least I got up the first time around! The next couple of times I managed to do even better. I surprised myself that I was able to avoid breaking my neck.

Anyway, I had a great time, my full cap stayed on nice and secure with blue liner tape on the nape and top of the skull, and Ultrahold across the hairline, temples, and above the ears. And much to my surprise, I looked in the mirror when we got back to shore and the back didn’t look nearly as noticeable as I though it would.

Funny…..I just realized something. My stylist Betsy, the one who cut in the unit I am currently wearing, was on the boat with us! If anything goes wrong it’s good to have your stylist close by ;)

Next time I’m out on the boat will remember to bring my camera.

Doubled My Attachment Time

Pretty simple really, but it just goes to show how even with years of experience you can still learn something new!

One of the main reasons why I could only get about 4 days out of an attachment was due to scalp irritation issues. This was only a problem in the areas where my unit had french lace, and only where there was no adhesive applied.

I finally caught on to the fact that the irritation might be due to the friction between the thicker french lace and my skin, so I started applying more tape in the areas where my skin was getting irritated.

Problem solved!

Here is a short video showing the areas where I apply tape.

Full Cap eBook Now Online

I am happy to announce that the editing for my Full Cap eBook is finally complete, and it is now available here, on my blog, free of charge.

This eBook is based upon the same material as my Full Cap DVD, and has taken many hours to complete, so I hope that it provides you with a good foundation to help you get started.

In the near future, I am planning to offer a downloadable .pdf version of this eBook, complete with full color pictures and illustrations. Be sure to sign up for my newsletter to get all the updates!

Click here to begin with the Introduction Page of my Full Cap eBook and follow the links at the bottom of each page to continue. You can also use the links on the right side of this page to review any of the chapters at a later time.

If you find my Full Cap eBook helpful, please help others by spreading the word!

Pushing The Limits

Every day it seems that we are learning that the rules we thought applied to full caps are based more upon ignorance than fact.

How short can you go? Will the unit lift if attached at the nape of the neck? How realistic can the temples look?

My latest unit was cut in by a stylist who has some experience with hairpieces. I gave him a few simple requests based upon the fact that I was planning on modifying the unit by cutting the temple areas back and adding some recession, and I told him that I tend to look better with “shorter sides and medium length top hair”. Other than that, his mission was to “make me look good”.

New Unit, Fresh Cut-In

New Unit, Fresh Cut-In

Much to my surprise, he cut the sides directly above the ears VERY short. I’m talking STUBBLE short. And amazingly, it looks great! I never would have thought that the hair at ANY point of a hairpiece could be cut to 1/8 or 1/16 of an inch and still look realistic, but I was proven wrong!

With the Full Cap business still in its infancy, there is no doubt that we will continue to push the limits finding new and exciting ways to make our Full Caps look great.

Ordering Your First Full Cap

Once you have decided to order a Full Cap, one of the first questions people who are new to the hair replacement game have is “What specifications should I order?”

The good news is that with a Full Cap you have MUCH more flexibility with your order than if you were integrating a topper with your existing hair. Many of the specifications that are critical to integrating a topper are much less important with a Full Cap. You have a lot more flexibility with:

  • density
  • color
  • curl diameter, and
  • template design

This changes if you decide to integrate nape or facial hair, and you will have limitations based upon the color and density of your eyebrows and your skin tone, but with a true Full Cap your options are many! First, decide on your base design. I highly, HIGHLY recommend ordering an all French lace base for your first unit or units. There are a couple of reasons for this.

  1. French lace very durable, yet extremely undetectable.
  2. French lace is easy to customize. The first template you make might not be perfect. You can easily trim the base and pluck hair to change the shape of the temples, hairline, and back area. You can also add material by sewing it on with invisible thread if necessary. Skin perimeter units are more difficult to customize. A lace base can be ordered larger than necessary to allow for experimentation and any material that is cut off can be used for repairs at a later time.
Next, decide the hair color of your unit.
If you are ordering a true Full Cap (no existing hair integration) your only limitation will be the need to roughly match the color of your eyebrows and your skin tone. You might want to stick as close to your natural hair color as possible for your first order, but personally I have found that I look much better with a color a couple of shades lighter than my natural hair, so go with what you think will look best.

Another important choice you will have to make is the density of your unit. As a general rule, the older you are the lighter the density should be, especially on the top. I recommend starting with a medium density on the top and sides (you might want to go a little thicker on the sides than the top), and a little heavier density in the back. Even men who are severely balding (like yours truly!) usually have fairly thick hair in the back. Don’t go overboard with the back density, but don’t be afraid to go a little thicker in this area. If you are transitioning from concealers or have a certain hairstyle that people are used to seeing you with, you might want to try to get close to the look you have with your natural hair, at least for your first few orders. You can slowly change the density (and other specs) with subsequent orders. On the other side of the coin, a radical change can also help to throw people off and provide the illusion that you simply changed your hairstyle. This applies more to color and curl, but a little change in density shouldn’t cause any red flags. Ventilation is also important. I recommend drawing the direction you want the hair to be ventilated on ALL areas of your template, not just the top. The ventilators tend to tie the hair forward in the temple areas, which makes for easier attachment, but if you want the hair to lie in a down or slightly backward direction, be sure to specify. For the top I recommend having the hair on your first unit ventilated forward. You will still be able to spike the hair at the hairline if you like, but forward ventilation and combing the hair at least slightly forward will help you get through the learning curve since this will cover a lot of flaws with your attachment. Finally, decide the amount of curl you want in your Full Cap.

Uncut unit with "Light wave" curl

Uncut unit with "Light wave" curl

If you are integrating nape hair, you will want to match the curl of the unit with your existing hair, if you are not using any of your own hair I would recommend ordering straight hair if possible. Straight hair is not permed by the factory, and in my experience it tends to be “healthier” than hair with curl.

Uncut unit with "straight" hair

Uncut unit with "straight" hair

This is just a general guideline to help you make better decisions as to what to order the first time you purchase a Full Cap Hair System. Be sure and sign up for my newsletter on the top right of the screen, as I will be sending updates on the progress of the Full Cap DVD, and the RemySoft line of products, all of which should be available soon!

Welcome To My Blog!

With so much interest in Full Caps these days, I have decided to chronicle my hair replacement experience with the hope that others will be able to benefit from the tips and techniques that several of us Full Cap wearers have been developing for the past couple of years.
One of my first Full Cap units, September, 2008

One of my first Full Cap units, September, 2008

I get a ton of emails, especially from younger guys who are looking for a hairloss solution. We have recently made a lot of progress with Full Caps and many people are actually beginning to look at it as a first option.

I still recommend that some people start out with a topper, especially if they have strong side, temple, and nape hair, but from the pictures that these younger guys are sending me of hairstyles they would like to achieve, it is clear to see that it would it be difficult (if not impossible) to reproduce some of these styles with their existing hair. The irony is that a Full Cap will  actually be easier and will give much more flexibility to achieve the modern styles the younger guys are looking for.

This is especially true with medium length and longer hair styles, but recently we have proven that with proper ventilation and density a Full Cap can be cut shorter than we previously thought possible.

For young and old alike, the stigma and mystery that has surrounded the Full Cap is slowly being replaced by acceptance and in some cases amazement!

Once again, welcome. I hope that I can help others through my experiences, and I encourage you to post comments for the benefit of everyone who is interested.